Tuesday, January 13, 2009

Facing Life Again After Divorce

Well... I am now mentally ready to move on and I am sure there are others like me out there.....
So I thought I would just write about how I went about starting over after my relationship ended. Just a little bit about it though.....I met my husband in 1992 and we married in 1999. We separated the first time in 2006 and reconciled in 2007. Unfortunately for me, that did not work and I left with my daughter again in 2008 and started the divorce process. It took me a long time to get out of the relationship becasuse I did not have the strength to become independent or to stand up for myself then. So, remember in order to be able to move on in life after your long term relationship ends and become a new person...you need to follow these rules:
1.Put yourself first
2. Give yourself time to heal
3. Don't be afraid to take chances.Be willing to try new things. You just might like it.....
4. Write a To Do list of goals you want to achieve this time around
5. Give yourself a makeover!!! It really boosts your confidence....
6. Remember to celebrate your achievements...you've earned them
You are now a new independent person facing the world and new its new challenges and you are ready for anything.....

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